手伝う vs お手伝いする
Japanese word comparison
Listen to 手伝う
Listen to お手伝いする
| 手伝う | お手伝いする |
|---|---|
te-tsu-DA-wu verb | おてつだいする verb |
| to help; to assist someone with a task | to help; to assist (polite humble form) |
How they differ
お手伝いする is basically the polite humble version of 手伝う. The meaning is very close, but this form makes the speaker sound more respectful and modest, especially in customer service or business situations.
When to use each
When to use 手伝う: Use 手伝う in plain speech with friends, family, or coworkers in casual settings.
When to use お手伝いする: Use お手伝いする when speaking politely to customers, superiors, or people you want to honor.
Side-by-side examples
- 荷物を手伝う。
(I help with the luggage.) - 荷物をお手伝いします。
(I will help with the luggage.)
Register & nuance: お手伝いする is polite and humble; 手伝う is plain and neutral.